Anonymous said: I think I'll have my first lesbian experience in a few days... I'm gonna see the girl I like, and she likes me too, but as this will be the first time for us both, we're kinda... insecure. We really want it to happen, but we don't know if we'll be able to meke it, get it? And it's not sex. It's... kissing, and cuddling, and stuff. She's way more insecure then I am. She says that, if we feel like it, it will happen naturally... so what should I do? I really really want her...

If you’re heated and in the moment, it will feel right and you really can’t mess up kissing and cuddling. I think you should just go with what she says and let whatever is going to happen be natural. Don’t force anything. Don’t expect anything. Just let it flow. Don’t have so much doubt in yourself.¬†