Anonymous asked: So, I'm 20 and never dated. I don't know how to find people to date and I don't wanna get older and completely inexperienced when I'm 25 or something. What would you recommend?
That’s not necessarily a bad thing. A lot of people date many times before they’re 20 and that doesn’t mean that they’re in a better place then you, because sometimes their relationships are completely dysfunctional or based on lust, etc. I’m not saying that all young relationships are like that, but sometimes they are. So, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Maybe you’re one of those lucky people that finds that special person and never has anyone else. Maybe you fall in love once and never experience heartbreak. That isn’t so bad, is it?
Honestly, if you go to college - then meeting people in your classes or through organizations is the way you’re going to meet people. It’s not as easy as it sounds, though. I wouldn’t recommend parties or bars, just because in my opinion, the chances of you finding someone that wants a serious relationship there is slim. I would honestly suggest, just for starters, creating an online dating profile. I know that sounds scary and crazy, but you can find some worthwhile people on there. (You just have to weed out the creeps). There’s a lot of free ones like okcupid that have a lot of lesbians in all areas. Other than that, I mean, the best you can hope for is a chance encounter.
I hope that helps.