Anonymous asked: Me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time. For her it was great, she even had her first orgasm. For me it was just horrible, she kept asking if I orgasmed and I just didn't answer. One issue is that she wasn't that great, the second was that I was just not that aroused. I was barely wet, so her fingering hurt like hell. She doesn't know that it was awful for me. She keeps telling me how great is was and I just don't comment. Is there any way to fix these issues for next time?
I don’t really think there’s any way to fix it other than to tell her how you really feel. Give her some tips on how it can be better for you. Guide her while she goes, telling her what to do can be extremely sexy and might turn you on a bit.