Anonymous asked: So I've been with my girl for almost two years now. I'm 21 she's 24. Our sex life is pretty average. She happens to be content with the standard. But I want dirty talk, hand cuffs, roll play, tie me to the bed type of stuff. I've asked her to do little things in that direction before but I've got a zero success rate. Any pointers?
Just talk to her about it straight up and tell her you want to try new things. Or you could just be a bit more aggressive during foreplay and try to move in the direction you’re looking for. If she doesn’t want to try, then you can’t really make her. Make sure it’s something you both want. But, just communicate and find out her wants and needs as well.