Anonymous asked: I was wondering if I could ask something. Since your a lesbian yourself, I thought you would be able to help. I know I like boys, I've had crushes in the past and a few relationships but they were never really serious, and we never did anything sexually, and I've always found that they liked me more than I liked them. But recently, I've found myself attracted to girls. It's not so much of an emotional thing, more sexual. I find the curves and contours of another girl's body so fucking sexy. I also have a friend, Eleanor, who I spend a lot of my time with, and I just can't get over how gorgeous she is, and I just can't stop myself from looking at her. I mean, her body is amazing, and I can't help but picture her in that way. She asked me a while ago who I liked, and I just panicked and didn't know what to say. I want to speak to her about it,but I'm scared. Whenever I've told my friends secrets in the past, they always get spread around. And it doesn't help that a lot of my friends are peers are homopobic. I haven't acted on anything at the moment, but I just want to experiment with another girl, not necessarily Eleanor, but I just want to know what it feels like. Does this make me bisexual? I'm 15 too, if that helps. Sorry the message is so long. Thanks for reading.
It’s no problem.
My definition of bisexual is someone that wants a relationship and/or a sexual encounter regardless of whether the person is male or female. So, it kinda sounds like you’re not bisexual if you only like women sexually. If you could see yourself in a relationship with a woman though, then maybe you are. But the labeling isn’t really important, I always tend to stress that. If you want to have sex with girls and date men, then that’s your choice. Live your life how you want and do what makes you happy. And most importantly, don’t give a fuck what others think. It’s your body, your life, and your choices. You can’t help who you’re attracted to either sexually or emotionally, and your real friends will understand and accept that.